As you can see, the two shapes are similar in that their corresponding angles are all congruent, but they are different in that their corresponding sides are different lengths. The image gives us the center of dilation, but it does not give us the scale. To find the scale, we must look at two corresponding sides. In this example, we have a 6 as the original image and a 12 as the dilated image. Because our original image is smaller than the dilation, we know the scale factor will be greater than 1. (If we reversed the roles and our larger image was our original, our resulting image would be smaller, a reduction, and have a scale of less than 1.) To find our scale we can use the equation 6*X=12 and solve for X. This dilation must have a scale factor of 2. This means that the dilated image sides should all be twice the length of the original image. If we were looking for the center of dilation, we would need to know the scale. Since our scale is 2, that means that the distance from our center of dilation to our dilated image needs to be twice as far as the length from the center of dilation to our original image.
I think typing out the rules for dilation helped me to understand them a little better, maybe reading them will have the same affect for you! If not, there is an awesome video that takes dilation and explains it in its simplest form and why we need to understand it here.